Whether you’re a size queen or just tired of giving yourself carpal tunnel from going hard on your trusty, hand-held dildo (who isn’t?), a suction cup dildo may be the answer to your horniest prayers.
With a suction cup dildo, you can take your solo sesh to a whole new level. (Who knows, it might even last past your first orgasm.) And, if your partner’s up for it, a suction cup dildo makes for great foreplay.
If this is your first time hearing about suction cup dildos, don’t worry; we’re here to educate and enlighten you on all the possibilities. From (literally) riding the wall to harnessing up (strap-on style) to conditioning yourself to get hot every time you hop in the shower, purchasing a suction cup dildo might be the best decision you make this week.
What is a suction cup dildo?
As the name suggests, a suction cup dildo is a type of dildo that has a suction cup for a base. These versatile (and truly ingenious, tbh) toys give you the chance to experience the kind of pleasure you’ve probably only fantasized about.
“A suction cup dildo basically does everything an ordinary dildo does, with the huge added benefit of letting you enjoy hands-free fun,” says Ed Buhler, the director of the UK-based sexual health and wellness brand Bodyjoys. “This gives you way more versatility in terms of positions, frees your hands for other self-stimulation, and allows your fantasies to run wild too.”
Here are a few things to consider when looking for a suction cup dildo
OK, now that we’ve covered what a suction cup dildo is, let’s go over how to find the best one for you or your partner.
Here are a few things to consider:
- Material: When it comes to sex toys or anything that you plan on using to touch your most sensitive bits, it’s super important to consider the material. “Opt for body-safe materials like silicone, which are non-porous, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean,” advises Martha Tara Lee, Phd, ASSECT certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor at Eros Coaching Pte. Ltd.
- Size and shape: Suction cup dildos come in various shapes and sizes. If you’re new to using dildos, you might want to start small and work your way up. Think about the length, girth, and texture as you browse. Once you’ve found one you like, imagine how it would feel before clicking “check out.”
- Suction strength: Suction is one of the most important factors (functionality-wise) to consider when buying a suction cup dildo. If its suction power isn’t worth mentioning (read reviews!), it’s probably not worth your time. Remember, it needs to be strong enough to stick to multiple surfaces, like the wall, a mirror, the floor, the hood of a car, you name it.
- Intended use: If you’re brand-new to dildos, you may not know everything you’d like to do with your new toy, but you probably have a vague idea. For example, if you want to use it with a partner, you might need a harness and an O-ring. Or, if you’re interested in using it for anal play, you may want to find one with a beaded shaft or a tapered tip for easier insertion.
- Aesthetics: Besides the shape and size, consider the color and overall design. (If this isn’t important to you, that’s totally fine!) Some retailers sell suction cup dildos with tentacles, while others feature realistic veins and textures.
Where’s the best place to mount a suction cup dildo?
There’s no real wrong answer to this question as long as you choose a stable, sturdy, and safe surface. Suction cup dildos can go against just about any smooth, flat surface, including the shower wall, bathtub floor, the actual floor of your bedroom (or whatever room), the kitchen counter, a chair, or even a table.
The possibilities are endless when it comes to the places you can mount a suction cup dildo.
“Take care with glass doors or free-standing mirrors,” warns Buhler. “Once you get started, you won’t want to have to worry about toning it down.”
If you avoid sticking it to things that may break or fall over, you’re probably OK to just go for it. Oh, and don’t stick it to anything that’s painted or covered in wallpaper – the suction cup will most likely damage the surface.
How to Use a Suction Cup Dildo
Using a suction cup dildo isn’t for everyone, but anyone can learn how to use one. If you’re a beginner, here’s a quick step-by-step guide to get you started (courtesy of Dr. Tara Lee):
- Press the suction cup firmly against a smooth surface. Make sure it’s really stuck on there before you get going.
- Once it’s attached (and you’re sure), whip out some water-based lube and give it a generous coating.
- Now, get into a position that’s comfortable for you. Some people may not want to arch their back or squat. So, if you have any mobility or flexibility limitations, choose a position that allows for easy access to the dildo without straining yourself. You can straddle it, back up against it, or even lay on your back with your legs spread. Use your imagination and prioritize your comfort.
- Start slow and gently lower yourself onto the dildo, allowing it to enter at your own pace.
How to Use a Suction Cup Dildo in the Shower
Not to be dramatic, but using a suction cup dildo in the shower might change your life — if you do it right. Here’s a quick starter guide to using your new toy (best friend?) in the shower:
- Make sure the surface is clean and smooth. If there are tons of ridges on the wall, consider sticking it on the shower floor instead.
- Wet the suction cup with water or lick it to create a good seal.
- Press the suction cup firmly against the surface. Again, make sure it’s stuck on there good.
- Now, adjust the water temperature and pressure to your liking and jump on it. (Don’t literally jump on it; use the instructions we mentioned earlier.)
- To make things even more exciting, place the dildo in an area of the shower where you can see yourself in the mirror or use the showerhead (assuming you have a sprayer) to stimulate your clitoris as you ride. If you don’t have a hand-held showerhead, bring one of your waterproof vibrators in there with you.
